Support for dogs who find handling, grooming or vet visits stressful in Worcestershire, surrounds and online

Build trust, reduce stress and touch sensitivity, and help your dog feel safe with handling so vet visits, grooming and everyday care feel calmer for both of you.

White dog, clipped, close up of face looking to the side.

For dogs who’d rather skip the vet, the brush, the harness…

If your dog is showing fearful or aggressive behaviour when handling then not only are they in distress but it makes giving them your best care very challenging. We love our dogs and we want the best for them, but they don’t always understand what’s good for them! Touch sensitivity or fear responses at vets or groomers can be difficult for everyone involved.

It can end up damaging the trust between you. You might even feel judged by the professionals your dog needs in their life.

Imagine being able to brush your dog without a battle, put their harness on without a chase, and walk into the vet without dread.

That’s what this training is here to help you build together.

Does your dog do any of the following?

  • Hide in the corner or under the table when you bring out the harness?

  • Bark, growl or snap at the vet or groomer if they try to touch your dog?

  • Bark, growl or snap at you if you try to brush them or put on their flea treatment?

  • Make it difficult for your to give them the level of care that you really want to?

If yes, then your dog could benefit from touch sensitivity training!

“Our boy greeted the vet with an excited tail wag and allowed him to do a physical exam”

“We’ve recently managed a really successful vet appointment. A few months ago, the vet couldn’t even get near him!

Not only does our boy now completely love life and cope so much better in challenging situations, he has become a real dream to live with. Thanks to We Teach Pets we also feel much more confident supporting him day to day”

~ Mollie

What’s it like to work together?

People who work with me often say they feel…

Understood, not judged

Supported, not overwhelmed

Empowered, not told what to do

They also describe feeling closer to their dog, more in control of their situation, and far less alone.

Sound like the kind of support you’ve been looking for?

How I can help

Touch Sensitivity – Pay As You Go

Single session

What’s included?

  • Initial information gathering

    I’ll review everything you’ve sent – including your referral, questionnaire, and any videos – to start understanding what’s driving your dog’s behaviour. This forms the foundation for your assessment.

  • 1 hour consultation

    We’ll explore your concerns, get to know your dog, and start a tailored training plan straight away so you can feel more confident with your next steps.

  • Written notes

    You’ll receive a write up of the plan in writing to refer back to so you always know the plan.

  • Contact with your vet

    Your vet will get a summary of your notes so that everyone in your dog’s team is on the same page.

  • Flexible sessions

    Book in sessions as/when you need them. We can book either 30/60 minute sessions so can continue to access the support you and your dog need to make progress.

£150

Touch Sensitivity Premium Package

4 sessions + WhatsApp support

What’s included?

  • Initial information gathering

    I’ll review everything you’ve sent – including your referral, questionnaire, and any videos – to start understanding what’s driving your dog’s behaviour. This forms the foundation for your assessment.

  • A 90 minute consultation

    We’ll explore your concerns, with more time to get to know your dog, and start a tailored training plan straight away so you can feel more confident helping your dog relax.

  • Written report

    After the consultation, you’ll get a clear, tailored plan in writing so you can refer back to it easily and stay on track with your dog’s progress.

  • Continued contact with your vet

    Your vet will get a summary of your notes so that everyone in your dog’s team is on the same page.

  • 3 x 30 minute follow ups

    We have a 30 minute live online check in at the end of week 2, 4 and 6 of the programme to discuss progress and decide next steps so you never have to feel alone with your dog’s training.

  • WhatsApp support

    You have WhatsApp support between sessions to send in questions, updates and videos for me to review to tweak training and give you feedback as you go. With this package you have the added benefit of a behaviourist in your pocket to help to support your training and any issues you come up against so you’re never left waiting for answers.

  • FREE access to the Low Stress Handling and Vets & Groomer Course (sells for £45 separately)

    2.5 hours worth of content to compliment your tailored 1-2-1 support. Find out more here.

£460

Don’t forget if you have pet insurance they may reimburse you the fees of our sessions!

There are also options to pay in instalments using PayPal or Klarna if eligible – simply let us know you’d like to pay in instalments and we’ll get you the right invoice option.

My interest in co-operative care training

My own dog Max has had his share of challenges with handling. As a long-haired Shepherd mix, regular brushing was a must. But he hated sitting still, and a painful grass seed incident left him sensitive around his side. If I touched the area, he’d squeal and bark in distress.

When he developed an ear infection and growled during treatment, I knew something had to change. I shifted focus to building trust, using gentle, step-by-step training.

Now, Max calmly accepts brushing, nail trims, ear drops, even injections at home – and has even made friends at the vets. He’s come a long way from the dog who had such touch sensitivity at home and panicked just in the car park of the vets. In fact, he’s so keen now that when I got eye drops out for my other dog, Max was the one who showed up ready to train!

While working in rescue, I introduced this same approach to dogs with trauma histories and severe touch sensitivity. Many were fearful or reactive when handled, but needed grooming and medical care for their wellbeing. With patience and cooperative care training, they learned not just to tolerate handling, but often to enjoy it. Giving them choice made a powerful difference to their confidence and trust.

A black staffy wearing a plastic cone around his head facing away, Max the German Shepherd cross sitting facing forward reading for ear drop training

So what’s the process?

Get in touch

Send an email or give us a call to share a bit about your dog and your concerns. We’ll get everything you need over to you so we can get you booked in easily.

We’ll create a plan together

We’ll get you booked in for a consultation where I can get to know you and your dog better. You’ll come away with a plan you can get started on right away.

Ongoing support – now and later

Choose the level of support that suits you and your dog best. Premium packages have me with you every step of the way. You can add further support when your package ends.

“I am eternally grateful and would recommend Naomi’s expertise to anyone”

“Cedric’s behaviour at the vet was uncharacteristically aggressive due to him being completely terrified, and it scarred (and scared!) us both, so I felt I had to do something, never to feel that desperate again.

Naomi was exactly what we needed: kind, professional, non-judgemental, knowledgeable, practical and with just the right level of humour to make me feel comfortable and see a bit of hope.

I have been practising suggested cooperative care techniques with Cedric, made a plan for future vet visits and all throughout had support via Whatsapp. Throughout practising with Cedric, our mutual communication has massively improved and in return so has his general behaviour – no easy achievement with an adolescent sight hound! I am eternally grateful and would recommend Naomi’s expertise to anyone who finds themselves in a sticky situation with their dog. Thank you for everything <3”

~ Marije with Cedric

FAQ’s for touch sensitivity and fear of vets/groomers

1. Can a dog really learn to tolerate being groomed?

Yes! Using co-operative care and reward based training we can change how a dog feels about grooming or handling procedures. 

2. My dog doesn’t go to the vets often, is there any point in training for it?

Again, yes! Your dog could need veterinary care at any time if they become ill or have an accident. Being able to get care as your dog gets older is also vital.  

3. My dog has never bitten, will the problem get better if we keep practicing?

This depends on how you do it! If your dog is rehearsing anxious or fearful behaviour, or low level warning behaviour when you are touching them in certain ways, then the chances are the more it happens the more ingrained it will become.

It could even get worse if not addressed because your dog feels like you aren’t getting the message and feels the need to communicate more strongly!

4. Are there other benefits to this training?

Learning about reading body language, co-operative care and using reward based training can help to build trust and promote bodily autonomy for your dog. This is great for their overall welfare and setting up a great method of communication together.

5. How does the process work?

This is a package that really lends itself to online working. You can find out more about how online sessions work HERE. We can also do these sessions as a hybrid of online and in person depending on your location.

If you’d like to know more about the process, what the consultation involves, more information about what a vet referral will entail, then I have some pages you can refer to HERE.

It can be hard to know what to do for the best when your dog doesn’t like being handled.

 

If you’d like to handle your dog more easily without second guessing their responses, let’s get started!

Got a dog who hates the vet or groomer?

Check out the self paced, step-by-step course that will take you and your dog through reintroducing them to their veterinary or grooming appointments, and also some handling exercises and grooming at home, in a low stress way for both of you!

Two and a half hours of content you can go back to over and over for as long as you need.

Included for free if you purchase the 1-2-1 package above!

Dog hates the vet course dog nurse photo