So when is separation anxiety not separation anxiety?!

Separation anxiety has become a catch all term for any unwanted behaviour that occurs when a dog is left alone. But not all of these behaviours are due to anxiety about being alone. If we assume it’s all anxiety then we might miss something integral to treating the actual problem.

Step one: assessment

Dog leaning out of an open window watching passersby.First things first, you need to know what your dog is actually doing. Your neighbour might have told you that your dog is barking while you’re away. You might have come home to your dog having toileted or ripped up your cushions. But that doesn’t give us much context. There are lots of reasons these things might be happening.

By setting up cameras and observing your dog you can see exactly what’s going on.

If you don’t see anything on one trial, try again another day. You may just not have caught your dog in action yet. When you’re observing your dog, look at their body language in general. Are they showing signs of anxiety such as holding their ears back, holding their tail low. Do they have lowered body language or are their muscles tense? Are they moving around more slowly or more quickly than they would usually? Maybe they are panting or drooling.

So what else might it be if it’s not separation anxiety?

Destruction:

  • If your dog is destructive to items when you’re not home then yes, it could be anxiety. However if your dog is bouncing around and throwing around your cushions in the process they might simply be having fun! Some dogs are opportunists if they get told off for playing with cushions when you’re home. Or they are simply bored and keeping themselves busy. This is more likely if their body language looks playful, like they look when they play normally. And if they are settled at other times.
  • If your dog is destructive (scratching or chewing) at internal doors or their crate door then another possibility is what’s called barrier frustration. In this case your dog simply can’t cope with loss of options when they are shut in their crate, knowing you aren’t home. When allowed access to their normal spot on the sofa, or your bed, they settle.

Vocalisation:

  • Vocalising can happen for a range of reasons too. It could be that your dog is getting into the window and barking at passersby. Or they’ve lost a toy under the sofa and are barking out of frustration. Watch your dog to see what they’re up to so you can see what their focus is.

Toileting:

  • Toileting issues might simply be that your dog hasn’t been able to hold it until you get home. If you walk them before leaving, they come home and have a big drink of water and may end up needing the toilet whilst you’re out. Or they struggle to hold it past a certain length of time. You’ll know more by observing your dog at other times during the absence to see whether they are settled before and after toileting.

Other:

  • Some dogs experience FOMO when their owner leaves. If your dog is used to going everywhere with you or is otherwise unexpectedly left at home when they think they’re going to be invited they may feel frustrated. Your dog may also feel anxious as well. This could result in pacing, running around the house, trying to escape, vocalising and more. They are more likely to settle down after a while. The process is often very similar as with anxious dogs, though depending on the severity is often a quicker process than genuine separation anxiety.

So there we have it, a few of the possibilities aside from separation anxiety which might share symptoms. This is why videoing your dog is so important. We want to capture everything we can to make sure we don’t miss things.

Search the blog page for “Separation Anxiety” to learn more about separation anxiety and how to treat it. Or check out the separation anxiety page of the website here to find out more about my specialised separation anxiety training packages. Or, if you think it’s something else, we can look at the videos together and come up with a different plan to tackle your dog’s symptoms.

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